Exploring BDSM Fetishes and Freedom: A Chat with Switch Dani Synclair

Episode 573: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career.

Connect with Dani: https://linktr.ee/dani.synclair

In this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world.

Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own boundaries and desires.

Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection.

Quotes from Dani from the interview:
"The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry."
"It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked."
"Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever."

Timeline:
00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch
02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish?
06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to
10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there
15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say
21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age
27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me
31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation
36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing
37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events
41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea
44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far
46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do
48:42 - The future
50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work
52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it

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Transcript

Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast, Season 5, Episode 573 Exploring BDSM Fetishes and Freedom: A Chat with Switch Dani Synclair.

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Ruan Willow introduces you to Danu Synclair, a professional BDSM switch

Ruan Willow: Hello everyone. This is Ruan Willow and I'm super excited to talk to my guests today. I always love talking to people. People are just fascinating to me and I think everyone's just special in their own way. So I'm just super excited to introduce you to this person. And I am going to read the little bio on X. I hate calling it X. Okay. Twitter. I'm going to call it Twitter. I'm going to be a rebel, sultry seductress. This is Ms. Danny Sinclair and she's a 5, 9 ebony pro switch, BDSM, Dungeon Delight only fan siren. She's bubbly, sweet and has seductive charm. And she's an ideal image model. Welcome Danny. Is there anything else you want to add to that? U.

Danny Sinclair: gosh, that kind of like sums it, up. So pretty much, yeah. So I am a OnlyFans creator. I am a professional switch at a dungeon in Los Angeles. I've been doing both those things for the past two years. so professionally, yes, for the past two years. but before that, I've always just been into just like expressing like myself, expressing my body, going into like lifestyle events, parties, things like that. So I'm just happy that I'm actually able to convert that from like personal fun to like actual career.

Ruin Willow: Yes. You're kind of were just living this life and now you're kind of able to do it as a career. It's kind of what it sounds like. Which is ideal, right?

Danny Sinclair: Yes.

Ruin Willow: Now when you, so you were doing all this stuff in your normal life, where was the point where it like switched? Did someone approach you or did you just say, hey, one day I want to do more? What was your trigger?

Danny Sinclair: yes, actually, it's kind of funny. I was dating a guy who had a foot fetish and so, with that he actually was like sending me, like different accounts on Instagram. And she's like, oh, well, hey, if you like your feet touch, here's like an actual foot fetish group that actually does things. And so from there, I actually reached out to that group and started doing sessions, with them. They do like monthly parties. And then, from there it kind of went from only foot fetish to pro a dungeon work. And then I was just like, well, I'm already, already doing this much. Might as well just like continue and go into like adult content creating. And it been great so far.

Ruin Willow: That's awesome.


Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish

So what are you enjoying most about it? Is it, is there something you could say that is like the most enjoyable part to you?

Danny Sinclair: The most enjoyable part is meeting people. Whether it's meeting, clients or party attenders or even like, other creators in the industry, it's like forming those connections where I actually get to talk to them and figure out like, hey, how did you, know that this was something that you were interested in? that's especially like, my question whenever I am doing my sessions. It's just like, at what point did you realize that this was like a fetish for you or that this is something that you really enjoyed doing? And I love hearing those stories.

Ruin Willow: Do you find most people have like, a story that's like a turning point for them that led to the fetish? Or are people just kind of like, I don't know, I just like this. So they have like a defining moment.

Danny Sinclair: Often, it's kind of like 50, 50 where, some people are like. When we go into. When I'm talking to clients during sessions, I'm just like, okay, like, where did you, like, ah. At what point did you know that you had like a foot fetish? They're just like, oh, happened when I was like, younger where like, I had a babysitter or a teacher who always wore sandals.

Ruin Willow: Yeah.

Danny Sinclair: Y. Then some people are just like, I don't know. I just, like, one day I just realized I liked it.

Ruin Willow: Yeah. It seems like a lot of people tend to have some sort of early experience. And, you know, I actually did, a podcast episode when talking people about their fetishes and one man at a foot fetish, and he likes to sit under the table when his mom had her friends over. And so he was like, looking at feet. And so, you know, people have all these different experiences, but a lot of them are very things and they aren't necessarily even, a sexual experience. Right. Like, some of them are not. And it sets that trigger. I just think it's interesting because it shows that it's really more, it psychological than anything.

Danny Sinclair: Yes, definitely. And it's really interesting toouse. It's not sexual. And it's like we have foot fetish. We have impact, placehold spanking. We have just all these different things that kind of just like came about that wasn't sexual. and then now it's just like, hey, it's just something that I enjoy. I don't get turned on from it or I don't need to come from it. It's just like, I just enjoy the experience. And it's like, it's really interesting. It's nice.

Ruin Willow: It Is it is. I mean obviously you're going to have the people that want that and then there's people that don't want that. You're going to have up two different groups I imagine. But it's so interesting to me, I even heard someone say they think there's something in the brain where it's either a part of your brain or they can notice like an activity at a part of a brain with foot fetish. And to me that's fascinating because that's like science. That's like, you know, this is, this is not just somebody making something up. This is like it's real to them and it's, there's a basis to it. It's not just some whim.

Danny Sinclair: Exactly. Right. So there's like, there's just something like you're something in the brain that kind of just like turned or just like some chemical balance up just's like hey, like oh, I like this. I love this. I get these endorphins from just being in this situation.

Ruin Willow: Right.


So talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to

So talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to. What do you do there? Do you have favorite things you do? Any crazy stories from there?

Danny Sinclair: Okay, yeah. So the dungeon that I'm currently at is called Legacy bdsm, studios. So this is in Los Angeles. I been at this current dungeon a little over a year now. and thankfully I don't have any crazy stories, like bad stories. But like every interaction is interesting. I remember when I first started at that dungeon, it was probably like my second week there. somebody had ah, booked like a three hour session and it was interesting because they just wanted to do story time. Like it was like a whole roleayce scenario where he was just talking the whole time about like a fantasy that he had and just like spent like two hours describing in like great detail of like in this scenario. Like we were married. Like this is like the things that we did. And then like after like two hours of him like just explaining that fantasy, like like the last like hour, four to five minutes, we'just like just talk, just had just like regular conversation. Like, which is why I'm just like it's not all sexual, it's just all. It's just like you're saying that's something in their brain, something that they want to enjoy or express. And it was really interesting for that to be like my first session booked with that studio.

Ruin Willow: Oh, I imagineeah. And you know, for some people it's just they Want they can't find anybody to have that connection with. So then they're going to do that step where you know. And so I have talked to other people too, have interviewed a lot of people, that sometimes that's just what it is. They just want connection. And, and I think this is where it always gets a bad rap. I mean it's not always one thing, it's not always one way. But what it does do is pay attention to people's needs, wants, desires, their mental health, their sexual health. You know, like these are, these are to me these are important things. And so I think it just gets. Don't you think it kind of just gets. People see it as not as valid but it's important to the things I just said. It's important to their well being as a human being.

Danny Sinclair: Yes, it is super important. And there's also too where people seek out dungeons or seek out experience because that either they don't feel comfortable expressing it to like their current partner. Cause they don't want their partner to feel awkward or like say yes to something that they don't really want to do. And so this is like a really valid thing to like be able to do and express and just like talk about with someone who understands like hey, like this session is something that is necessary that it's needed to like just help that person just feel whatever feeling that they're trying to feel in that moment.

Ruin Willow: Absolutely.


Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there has you said you're switch

Now what kind of kinks to usually engage in there has you said you're a ah, switch, right?

Danny Sinclair: Yes, I am a switch. So I've had sessions where if I'm as submissive or I'm botoming, it's mostly people spanking me. because impact is like my first love. Like that is like what got me into kink. So that is like my all time favorite, will always be my favorite. So me being spanked with different implements, whether just using hands, paddles, crops that have. I've had tickle sessions where people are. I do find like my most nicklish spots. I've had sessions where let's see. And then we're going back into like the more like doming or topping where once again like I'm doing impact to others. I do electro play. I do obviously foot fetish. yeah, have guys who are just like stomp on me. Guys who are just like oh, I just wanted like rub your feet. Like I want to give you a massage. I want your feet in my face. we have Guys who have like specific clothing fetish. Like we have guys who are just I want wear stockings, like these specific type of stockings.

Ruin Willow: Ye sure.

Danny Sinclair: And yeah, it kind of just like ranges like just depending on the day. the studio allows walk in. So like it's whenever go in for the day. I normally bring like a few different outfit options where one outfit is like super like dy where it's like black leather corset or I have things that are super like sububby, really pink, cute, frilly and that just kind of like sometimes where like if I don't have anything booked in advance, I'll just come kind of like in the middle where I'm wearing a nice top and a skirt that can go either way. Where I can like do like a roleplay thing where I'm like, oh, like I'm a teacher, I'm a principal or something like that. Oh yeah, like go play off of whether student, teacher, whatever.

Ruin Willow: Do you find yourself like packing a bag ever to be like, okay, I need to bring this, this and this?

Danny Sinclair: Yeah. So pretty much like I have like one bag that I have just like completely set. It has three pairs of shorts or skirts, three tops, three different types of shocking. One pair of hills that likeill are like my most comfortable hels just be in all day. I have like my snacks because I'm always good snack and then like just some makeup to reapply throughout the day. And so got pretty much packed unless somebody asked for something specific. But that's just like my normal bag.

Ruin Willow: Can you say things like I won't do XYZ and just. Can you really be very specific about what you will and won't do?

Danny Sinclair: Yes, absolutely. Yeah. So whenever we go, we to start a session, like we'll do a interview chat or it's just like what do we want to do today? do you want me to be a dumb. Do you want me to be a sub? Do you want me to be mean? Do you want me to be nice? And then from m there they'll tell me what they want. And if it's like a switch session, I'm just like, okay, great. So we can do a switch session for me. Like, you can only use this, this and that, that prop implement or like for me I'm just like. Like one thing for me is just like sometimes like so I am neurodivergent. So sometimes I have sensory issues. So when I'm just like, okay, like if we are doing a scene, like stay Away from my ears. Like, I hate people getting close my ears. I'm like, please don't. That's the big now ye.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, that's good.

Danny Sinclair: Yeah.

Ruin Willow: I mean, just talking about it, that's good. You know, that's one thing a lot of people on the outside of this kind of life don't understand is that there's so much discussion and there's more discussion in what you're saying than a normal relationships. Right. It shouldn't be that way, but that's the way it is. So, you know, people just have misconceptions about it.

Danny Sinclair: Yes, exactly. Cause there's just been like things that haven been t portrayed online where it's in no way like how actual like dungeons or different dynamics like work and kind of like, like the whole 50 Shades of Graying. Like there was like a lot of things where that was just like that's not normal, real or safe.

Ruin Willow: Right? Yeah, that whole splash into the world was good, bad because it brought up things to light that maybe people hadn't thought of. Maybe normalized it a little bit. But yeah, I actually'never read it or seen it, but I've heard everybody say that it's very wrong in the portrayal of the lifestyle.

Danny Sinclair: So yeah, there's just a lot of things where you're just. Where just like even like before I decided to go approach just like me doing like lifestyle things, I'm just like that. That's a no for me.

Ruin Willow: Right. Like that's not going to happen. Exactly.


If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say

So want to circle back to the things you do. Like, so what is it about? If, if someone were to ask you what is it that you like about this spanking, what would you say? What part of it is it the feel? Is it the way it makes you feel? What answer would you have to that?

Danny Sinclair: Yes. it's like, so I can go from both, like from like a topping perspective and then the bott perspective. So like when I am bottoming for a spanking session, it's getting into that mental headace. Like the thing with me is just like, like I had mentioned, like I do have like sensory, issues sometimes. So like if I am in like in a scene or if I'm like, I feel something that doesn't feel right or I hear something that takes me out like that. A lot of it's a whole mental thing where it's like, it's not just the feeling of getting spanked. it's like, it's that whole mental connection. Like'm. If I'm Doing it in my personal life, it's definitely with someone I can trust because, in my personal life, I am a heavy bottom. But, like, when I am doing it professionally, I, do like light to medium. Mainly because it's just like we don't have that, connection yet. We don't have that rapport.

Ruin Willow: Yeah.

Danny Sinclair: And so it's just like, for like my safety, my sensory issues, my things. It's just like I want to make sure that we are in an agreement of what's happening within that scene. so as like I was saying, so it's a mental thing, it's a physical thing. When it comes to being in the right headspace. it's like I love having music in the background, like where I. I love somebody who's able to play off the beat of music. So whenever I'm topping, like, if there's like a really fun song on, like, I will do handmaings to like, the beat.

Ruin Willow: O. sure.

Danny Sinclair: so like, I love doing that to people. I love if somebody's able to do that to me because not all people are able to that rhythm. so, like, being in a time with the rhythm, that's a whole mental thing. And then m. When I do, get thinking, it's not just. Just like on my butt, it's like on the back of my thighs. If it's somebody who knows what they're doing, it's going up my back. and for me, I love sensation. so different implements. Whether they're soft, they're hard, they're wooden. the vampire glove, it's like in between or like a soft like cloth. Just. It's like a whole bunch of like, sensations and it just super great.

Ruin Willow: And then when you're topping, what is that for you? Did you enjoy that or is that some more kind of like just a role you're playing or do you have some enjoyment in as well?

Danny Sinclair: And then when I'm topping, I love it just as much where, it's always different, with different, scene partners. Where I have one friend, she's like super, like has this really low pain tolerance. So. Oh, yeah, the smallest, like, hit. She's like jumping. But then it's still fun for her. Like, I love her reactions where it's just like, hey, let's let'try this implement. Let's try something soft. Let's try something stingy. And like, it's fun with her. just because, like, I absolutely like, adore her personalities. She's like Such a sweet. And she makes like the cutest sounds, like she squeaks a lot. and like when we agreed to go and use heavier implements, she tries to run away. But that's fun for her. Like she.

Ruin Willow: Oh, sure, he wants to be chased.

Danny Sinclair: He wants to be chased. I had one session with somebody just the most adorable man, really cute and had the whole little head space. So, it was like a spanking party and he was dressed up in like this cute little baby doll outfit and had these cute little bloomers. And when I pop, I'm either sensual or I'm really playful. So, with that, with that scene, I was like super playful. Made him just like feel cared for, like fun. And like after the scene he was like, oh, that was so much fun. I haven't had that much fun in a while. And like doing like the aftercare that he asked for just like g him like back rubs, just like making them cared for. And I think that also too is like when I top. I love like being able to provide that aftercare.

Ruin Willow: Sure makes sense to me. yeah. Yeah. And you know, I think most people like to make other people feel good. I mean, even if obviously people can be sadistic or whatever, but, you know, you still like to make someone feel good. Mean. I think most people are like that. And so it's going to be beneficial even to. To the person who is kind of like in charge.


How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age

Like you're talking about, is it interesting to you being where you are in your life? Did you see yourself being and doing what you're doing or is it complete shock?

Danny Sinclair: I saw it coming.

Ruin Willow: Did you sor.

Danny Sinclair: Coming. honestly, from a young age, like, I was always like, curious and like, just like reading like all different types of books online and then, yeah, reading, like when Watpad was a thing, like just all these online like stories, like people doing like fan, fiction stories with like different like show characters. And like I was always drawn to the more not vanilla things where.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, yeah.

Danny Sinclair: And so it was like as soon as like I would say, how I originally started out, in the lifestyle part is online searches. Eventually came across fetlife. yep, originally came across that. and I'm a person who likes to do my research before getting into something. So probably like six months, of me just like looking on there just likek, hey, these are these groups. Oh, these are these events. And it's just like, all right, let me just like think about it. Like I see that this group has like parties like every month. This group is legit. This group looks sketchy. I'm not gonna do that. right. And then eventually I did go to an event. I cannot remember the name of the group that held it, but that was. How old am I? probably like 10 or 12 years ago.

Ruin Willow: Okay, sure, sure.

Danny Sinclair: So 10 or 12 years ago when I was I finally decided to go to an in person event and I went to the event and I. People watched like I went from room to room just like seeing what's going on. And when I first started it was just like. It was also too just like one just overwhelming but then also kind of like scary in a sense where it's just like I'm at these late night parties in LA by myself, not really knowing anybody and it's so like. And then like I'm a new face. Like people are approaching me mostly man, and I'm just like o no, I'I'M just watching anything. And so then probably like my third time going to that specific group, I watched this scene. it was an impact scene there it was a couple. The guy was using a bull whip on his partner. And like I watched like I loved watching how, how that scene went, how he, how from start to finish, how there was a warm up, how he had then restrained her wrist to the St. Andrew's cross, how like the way that her body was, how like she was angled, the check ins and just like the sound, the sound of the whip just like cracking. seeing the welts, like appear on her cheek, on her butt. And after the scene, like respectively go up to them just like hey, that was beautiful. I definitely enjoyed watching that. is it okay if I like feel the prop that you were using? Cause I was just like what it was, it was just like oh, somethingeah.

Ruin Willow: Yeah.

Danny Sinclair: Crazy sounding and so feels nice. And then I was just like do you mind if I try it? Like can I get hit with it a couple times? And so like that was like my first.

Ruin Willow: Hm.

Danny Sinclair: ###Mm introduction to Impact play. I'm just like. I went head in. I'm just like the first thing to.

Ruin Willow: Get hit with a bullwhip right like charging right in. ye.

Danny Sinclair: And then from there I was like oh, I definitely love Impact. And just like over like the years it's me whenever I play with somebody that I know, like they usually have like their own like toy bag full of prompts and they're just like what do we want today. I'm like, surprise me. I trust you. I know you. And's so like, I pretty much everything but the kitchen sink. And I literally mean everything. I have a friend who has a, skillet in his bag that he just pull out.

Ruin Willow: Wow, a skillet, huh?

Danny Sinclair: Yeah. Like, what is with a pan?

Ruin Willow: Why you have a pan? It's pretty funnyeah. I mean, I guess all those kind of so many things do actually work. So, you know's, it's not hard to imagine.

Danny Sinclair: Like, he'll put it against you and it's cold, so you're like, oh, what? And then it'll hit you. And I'm like, it's heavy.

Ruin Willow: right, right.

Danny Sinclair: And so that's a whole sensation, whole sensory'like it's so many things combined than just actually hitting somebody.

Ruin Willow: Right, right. And, you know, you obviously were when your first experience, you were with someone who knew what they were doing because they had just done it. You knew that. So you had that evidence of having watched it rather than just, you know, random person, you know?

Danny Sinclair: Yes.

Ruin Willow: Yeah.


M. is very claustrophobic. So that sounds very terrifying to me

Now, do you do any other types of bdsm, like restraint or anything like that? Do you have rope or anything? Are you just not into that kind of stuff?

Danny Sinclair: so I am getting into rope up, but more as a bottom. I do, attend, like, rope meetups where I do, get tied. Actually, last night, I did have a rope session. it was probably like there for like a couple hours. Did, a few different ties. And then the last tie, was like a really intricate, like four or like four rope pieces where, like, my ankles were bound, my thighs were like the right above the kneec cap were found. I, had this shoulder harness with the rope. And then my hands were behind my back. And then, then, m had it all. I come together. So I was kind of like hog tied.

Ruin Willow: Oh, yeah. Okay.

Danny Sinclair: Andath then, after that, he's like, oh, try to get out of it. So I probably so about 45 minutes and I finally like, unrappedbed myself. So like now. Oh, really feeling just like moving, just like figuring out like, which parts move. And it was really fun and lot. It took a lot out of me.

Ruin Willow: I would be in a massive panic if somedy did that to me because I'm claustrophobic like you. If I've been stuck in like, I've had like, where I'm like stuck in a shirt or something that I, you know, and then I start to panic even from like, a tight shirt that I can't get off quickly enough. So I am very claustrophf. So that sounds very like terrifying to me. But kudos to you that you could do it and actually get out without. Without going into hysteria.

Danny Sinclair: I'd go into hysteria because I'm so stubborn and it's just like I, I got myself into this, I'm go going toa get myself out of it. I will do this. And was like, probably like halfway through, he's just like, you know, you can ask for help. Oh. And then also, because I've been working with this man for like a while. My mouth was all look yged. So

Ruin Willow: Oh sureir, sureir.

Danny Sinclair: So. So I was whole predicament thing where it's just like I can't speak, like I'm tied and bound. It's just like, it's a whole everything where it's just like, all right, get out of it. I'm just like, oh gosh. All right.

Ruin Willow: Now, did you have a sort of signal to him to indicate that you were. You needed help if you needed it? Did you have a way to communicate with him?

Danny Sinclair: Yes. So, M. he was close by, probably like not even like two feet away where it was just like usually like if I give up on a tie, I kind of just like lay there and I'm just like,

Ruin Willow: And that's my signal when you give up, it's time to help you. Is that the kind of thing when I'm no longer trying? Help me.

Danny Sinclair: When I'm no longer trying. That is my signal.

Ruin Willow: That's pretty funny. And now.


Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation

So this is stuff that you do in person and with people live. Do you do filming too?

Danny Sinclair: Yes. So I do the whole content creation. So that's the whole. Only fans.

Ruin Willow: That's right. Onlyfans. Yeah.

Danny Sinclair: Yeah. So, I do the pretty much like the vanilla like boy girl stuff. I do light kink stuff where for example, like there's a few friends of mine who are also like do like the content as well and we'll do like fetish themed to where it's like, hey, this is a giantess film. This is a foot of ji. This is a spanking actual video content. this is a little bit of everything, honestly.

Ruin Willow: Hm.

Danny Sinclair: So yeah, so I do have content that I do sell. and I also get booked for custom videos that get sent out. So I've had experiences where I've worked with the company several time and like they've flown me out to go do the custom where it was like really like a heavy caning scene. Like really heavy. Like probably like 60 to 80 hits.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, that's a lot.

Danny Sinclair: Yeah, really, it's a lot. you have a recovery period then.

Ruin Willow: After something like that, I suppose you'd have to. Right.

Danny Sinclair: So. Yeah. It also depends on, your skin sensitivity. Since I've been doing it for so long, like, it takes a lot for me to bruise on most cases.

Ruin Willow: Oh, really?

Danny Sinclair: I didn't know that happen. Yeah. Versus like the, There's a video that Well, some customs that I did last year. It was me and two other ladies.

Danny Sinclair: And it's like this whole like judicial caning thing where one girl, was her first, heavy canning experience. One girl, she's been doing it, for ah, a sometime, but she doesn't get caneed all too much. And then there's me where like, I've been spnding so much that it takes forever to like bruise. So like by the end of the video, like they took a picture like of all three of us standing right next to each other. And it's just like my cheeks are like barely red. Like I have like, like few like welts. Like they didn't like lift too much. And like probably like two days later, like, I was fine. the second girl, very red. she had She definitely had the cane marks. Like you can actually y. And like, so the next day, like, she had like sun bring. And then like the third girl with it being like her first like heavy caning. Like it just like bloomed. It was just like purple everywhere.

Ruin Willow: Wow. Yeah.

Danny Sinclair: And Yeah. Like, so everybody with like whatever their skin sensivity, like if you're getting spanked frequently, like the skin hardens, it doesn't show as much.

Ruin Willow: I mean, that makes sense. I just never really thought about it because like, I think of someone working with their hands and they kind of get calloused hands. Right. Kind of a similar thing, I would think. I never thought about that before. Interesting.

Danny Sinclair: Yeah's kind of funny. And then going just to like a personal experience. a partner that I played with. we decided to like, have like a whole session where I'm just like, do whatever, use whatever. And it's So I just wanted to bruise. Like the ultimate thing was like, hey, bruise me. And it. So he literally went through like everything in his bag. And it was getting to the point where he got tired before I did. I can still keep going. He's like yes. Mentally you can still keep going, but physically your skin is starting to break. But I'm like, I'm not bruceised though. he's just like, we're calling it. I'm just like, okay.


Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing

Ruin Willow: Very interesting. Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing, did you feel like you would get to this point, did you think you would get this deep into it where, you know your skin isn't bruising and it's not. It takes so much more. Is it kind of like you didn't expect to get here?

Danny Sinclair: I didn't expect to get here. I would say that I've always had interest in doing this stuff, but then taking it professional and constantly doing content. Constantly doingly doing stuff. It's just like I never thought that I'd get to the point where like, I don't brewise easy.

Ruin Willow: Right? Like you don't think about that.

Danny Sinclair: And so now I'm just like, sometimes like when I do get booked for customs spanking, I'm just like, yeah, like I'm interested in doing it but comparing my body to someone else's. It's like, yes, the scene's gonna still be beautiful. But if you're looking for like m photos and videos for after I don't show it doesn't show up as much on me.

Ruin Willow: Now, do you feel like you need. Yeah. Do you feel like you need to prep people for that? Like, so that if they're looking for someone who maybe their markings are more or they react more. Cause, I mean. Yeah, because you want someone want to fit what they're looking for. Right?

Danny Sinclair: Yeah.

Ruin Willow: Must be like terms for that. Like, you know, Exactly.

Danny Sinclair: So, yeah, so if it is, it's just like, if they're just doing a custom and they just want the scene, scene is fine. But if they're like, hey, like after the scene, like I'LIKE three days of like the healing process. I'm just like, there is no healing process. There's's not there after.

Ruin Willow: You're not getting that with me. Very interesting.

Danny Sinclair: Yeah.


Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events

Ruin Willow: Now, do you have. Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events is one more fun or more special to you?

Danny Sinclair: Oh, Ah, goodness.

Danny Sinclair: I. That's good question. feel like I love both. I love being able to produce the content. Whether it's like it's something that I'm being paid for or something that I'm just doing for fun. It's just like I love the experience in itself. So either way, if I'm creating the video or I doing something live. It's still an experience either way.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, yeah, I can totally understand that. Now do you tell people in your life, your family and friends that you do this or. Only certain people.

Danny Sinclair: Only certain people. I would say, I mean obviously like I'm a face out creator so it's not right.

Ruin Willow: Like you're headless.

Danny Sinclair: So y with me being a face out creator, it's just like if you search me up you can find me. I'm not hiding it, but it's one of those things where it's just like if you don't need to know, you don't need to know. It's m. Why do we have to have a conversation? Especially too if it's somebody that's very close mindedes. Like I enjoy having you as my life. Like in my life you're still like my friend but if like you're gonna be judgmental.

Danny Sinclair: There's no need in having this conversation. Like like I had a guy that I used to date, like he was fully aware of what I was doing and so like he'd be like oh well what are you doing on this day? I'm like oh well I have work. And I would say I have work because he didn't care to know the details of what I was doing.

Ruin Willow: Sure, sure.

Danny Sinclair: So I was just like yeah, I'll be working, I'll be doing. And she's like okay, well then like when will you be free? I'm like oh it's gonna be like an all day thing because it's like content creation or like being at the dungeon all day or like in some cases I travel to work. So it's just like like in October like I had like a I got booked for a really like heavy like adult film scene and I was like gone for like three days. So it's just like.

Ruin Willow: Right, right.

Danny Sinclair: Some people like I'm just like yeah, I'm go going toa be doing this and this and this all day. Or then other people I'm like oh, I'm just working.

Ruin Willow: Right, yeah, that makes sense. yeah. All about their, their openness and their comfort level and their judgmentalness, you know, and really're unless they want to be your, your partner or your client in it, they don't need to know. Right. Unless they want to know or they want to talk about it. But yeah, they're not necessarily your so called audience.

Danny Sinclair: Exactly. Yeah.

Ruin Willow: Right. Yeah. So many people I'TALKED to that it's kind of the same way. It's different levels. You know, they tell people different things, different levels. All depends on their relationship. But the people that are most judgmental, they m. You know, often may not continue to be close with, you know, they'can't get to that point.


Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea

Now what kind of advice would you have for someone who wants to get into doing what you're doing?

Danny Sinclair: Be sure that you want to do it. And if you decide to become like a digital creator or have a digital footprint of the things that you do, make sure that you, you are ready for it. Because once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there you forever, whether you're alive or dead. So.

Ruin Willow: Right. Welleah, the thing is you could delete everywhere it's up, but people may have downloaded things, you know what I mean?

Danny Sinclair: It's downloaded it. People can pirate it and steal it and just like post it, elsewhere. It's just like your image is there. So be prepared.

Ruin Willow: Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea? I mean, you know, I know for writing you can actually track it. You know, images you can track too. But do you even bother with checking for piracy or just whatever, let it go.

Danny Sinclair: It's at the point where it's just like it sucks that it was stolen but it's still being used. So it's just like, hey, like this may not have my name attached to it right now, but if I find it I would be like, hey, this is me, this is me, this is me. And she's like somebody circulating it and I will make sure it still gets back to me. I'm like, it's one of those things where like yeah, it sucks. But then it's just like more people are finding me, it's getting me more work.

Ruin Willow: Right. It's kind of like a sick form of advertising. You know what I mean? Like, you know, it's pirated and it But it still, still kind of advertises you, right? Yeah, M.

Danny Sinclair: Yeah, still advertises.

Ruin Willow: Although it's kind of annoying too because you want to earn money from what you've created and they're taking that from you. But at the same time it's also advertising you so that maybe those people at see it want to come get more of what you're actually selling.

Danny Sinclair: Exactly. Because more people see it'try to find more of it. And and it's also too where it's just like if somebody steals it and they put it on a site and it's just like oh, I didn't know that site existed. Oh, I found me and like people are coming because they want more of my material. So. Sucks. But it doesn't suck exactly.


Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far

Ruin Willow: Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far? There's something you wouldn't want to do anymore that you got rid of?

Danny Sinclair: I don't, I don't have a regret specifically. my only thing is that I wish I started. Started younger. Like I, like I just turned 31. so I'm just like I was doing so much like in like a lifestyle thing. I'm just like I could have been doing this and actually making money. Right? versus like me like struggling with like a nine to five. Like Last year I made the decision to like quit my NRA into five where I'm just like m. I'm not happy doing that and it takes up so much of my time and I get taxed so much for like, like for example like if I'm doing like an eight hour workday and by the time like work eight hour workday, working like 40 hours like a week and it's just like by the time I get my check I'm just like taxes, insurance, everything. And it's just like I pretty much got like half of like the actual like work that I put in. And so it'just like at least with this it's just like I make my schedule, I make my content, I put the effort that I want to put in. And don't get me wrong, it is a lot of work. Don't come into this thinking that it's going to be easy. I ah, have literally spent like every day like in front of my computer just like okay, this needs to be scheduled, this needs to be edited, this needs to be like posted. This need to. So it's like yes, I am working longer days. I'm not doing like a whole like nine to five. It's. I wake up, I do this like it's just like oh like I, I'm atey Jim and like I have screen protectors on my phone and like the m kind of like the blinder so that way people can't really see. So like I'm on a like on the bike and I'm just like all right, this is getting scheduled. This is getting responded to. This is like it's like I'm working throughout the dayeah and it's just like it's not easy and it's a lot of work but ultimately I am happy.

Ruin Willow: Yeah. And you're more your own boss it sounds like. So you're in charge of it. So if you're go going toa work more, it's because you're deciding that.

Danny Sinclair: Yes, exactly.


Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do

Ruin Willow: Do you have to do a lot of editing? Do you do a lot of your own editing? Like video and stuff like that?

Danny Sinclair: Yeah, so I do like a lot of my own editing. right now like I'm not in like a position financially to be like hey editor, do this or hey, like I do not have a team right now. So it's just like I'm doing everything myself and like once I do like get like a bigger fan base that's actually like buying content, asking for customs, coming into like the dungeon, then like once I'm steady I will definitely be able to get a team. For now it's like me doing a lot of my own sts. So.

Ruin Willow: But yeah, and also you'probably learned a lot of things too that you've never done before. Technical things, right?

Danny Sinclair: Definitely. There's a lot of things where I'm just like oh, this is how you use this editing app, this system, this platform. It's a lot of like learning and also too it's learning what? Learning what I like to do. Learning what is selling. Learning what's actually relevant. It's like it's a constant thing where I'm like learning something new within the Internet, within the world, within myself and m. It'yeah it's always a learning thing and it's always going to be a lot of work based on like how much up you want it to be part of your life. Like this is my job, this is my full time thing now. So.


M. Y. talks about where he sees himself going in the future

Ruin Willow: Where do you see yourself going in the future? Do you have any new plans in the future that you can talk about?

Danny Sinclair: Future? Oh my gosh. I'm like the worst person to talk about future because I reach your AA pass. I can barely remember what I had for breakfast. I can understand as far as like things in the future, like I was saying like I ultimately want to get be in a position where like I am doing things more consistent, I'm doing things more on a niche level. I think it's a little bit hard for me being a switch is because I want to do so many different things. Ye yeah.

Ruin Willow: You're so open, right?

Danny Sinclair: Yeah. So like I want to narrow my content or my material or my skills to specific things. That way I can actually have a specific fan base but still do other like hey, like once a month I'll be doing this and this. Be sure to look out for that. Or I'll be doing that or this which like I have this set spent fan base but then I still have other categories.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, that makes sense.

Danny Sinclair: Makes lot of.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense because kind of like niching down but not completely narrowing yourself so much that you won't do other things. M. Yeah. Y.


When you're traveling it's literally just for work

Very interesting. So where are some of the places you've gone to travel? Some. Any fun places that you've really liked?

Danny Sinclair: let's see. Honestly, when I'm traveling it's literally just for work. Like.

Ruin Willow: Oh, so no fun stuff?

Danny Sinclair: Yeah, yeah, it's like because it's like I'm always editing, I'm always busy, like I'm always doing sex. If I'm like the trip to New York that I mentioned, I went like, oh my gosh, like I scheduled it where I did an overnight to fly to New York from LA. Got there at like 7:00am got to my hotel. and so there's that whole like three hour time difference. So I'm just like, all right, I'm tired so I nap, I eat, I do the shoot the scene, whatever it is like midday, depending on like for example for that day, pro. Probably like three hours to like get everything done for that, go back to my hotel, and then wake up at like 1am to catch a 4am flight. Oh yeah, that's terr night for the whole time difference'get back to LA 9am and then I'm pretty sure I had something like scheduled like later then. Actually no, I did. So what I did is I worked the dungeon, I went to the airport, I flew, did the job, flew back and then got back to LA 9am and then went back and then started my next shift at the dungeon at 11:5pm oh man, it was like three, four days of just so I do. Like the more time that I spend in an airport or traveling or things, it's like I can't get content doneton. I can't get edits done. I limited signal. I have limited. So it's just like if I'm doing something for work, it is work mode.

Ruin Willow: Maybe someday you can add in some fun days.

Danny Sinclair: But yes it is. Yeah, but right now it's like it's, it's all about growing. It's getting

Danny Sinclair: You got toa work hard to play hard. So.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, Absolutely.


How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it

Now when you're getting ready to do a scene with someone, do you to you ever find yourself maybe not turned on or not excited about it and how do you go about getting your brain ready to then go into that and do it?

Danny Sinclair: Oh, absolutely. so the thing with doing scenes is that we have our brains that are just like regular mode and then on mode. So like it's just like, okay, it's like sometimes I wake up, I am grumpy, I'm just like, I don't want to do this today. Yeah, yeah, it is cold. And then it's just like, all right, let eat a meal, let's eat something that I like. Okay, let's listen to music. Music is like really big for me where it's just like music. It'what gets me in whatever mood I need to get into. Like my Spotify has like different playlists where it's just like I have like three different like workout playlists where I have like a pop playlist, a rock playlist, just like a heavy like techn EDM playlist. Like I have different music playlists to get me in different moods. So that's also like a big help for me is like getting into the headspace. So want to do or need to do just to get into that mood. But yeah, no, I am grampy. Most of the times I'm just like. But as soon as I get there, I am on. I am happy ready. I am like let's get this done. And I have as much fun as I can and then I crash. As soon as I get home I'm like all right, cool, we're done.

Ruin Willow: I like that it's kind of like you're taking the moment of self care like okay, this is what, this is what I know will help me get there. And then you do it.

Danny Sinclair: Yes.


Do you have favorite artist that you, that you want to share

Ruin Willow: Do you have a favorite artist that you, that you want to share?

Danny Sinclair: Oh, my. Nope. No, I too hard to pick a favorite.

Ruin Willow: Right.

Danny Sinclair: Choose which fashion I like, everything. I would say over the past three years I've been listening to a lot more like techno because they have the different categories within them as well. So probably have like seven different playlist of that but also just depends on my moode. ah is like a really big thing to help wrap me up or calm me down and.

Ruin Willow: Absolutely.


Where can everybody find you? We haven't mentioned where everybody can find your content

Well, where can everybody find you? We haven't mentioned where everybody can find all your content. We said old fans. Of course.

Danny Sinclair: Right, of course, of course. so if people are searching for me, the main page to find me on would it be. Actually depends on what you're looking for. if you're looking for my adult content that it's my OnlyFans. so that's going to be my name. Danny Sinclair. D A N I S Y N C L A I R. and so on my Twitter I do have my linktreee which does give you like all my, all my sites. so Twitter's the best way to find me. OnlyFans is the best way to get my clips. and I also do have a min vids account, the Manyiv vids account. that has more of a mix of content whether I'm doing a regular adult content or fetish. I just put up a J I jer off instruction video that I did with a friend. So that's on my many vids. and yeah, so many vids would be if you're looking for more fetish stuff. OnlyFans is more adult, penetrative sex. if you're just looking to look at my pictures, I have my Instagram page, which is Danny Sinclair XO because Instagram hated me and took down my first page.

Ruin Willow: Yeah, I know how that goes. They didn. Yeah. They're pain.

Danny Sinclair: Yes. So that one has exo after my name. And then I'm also in the bio of that. I do have like a smaller account that I am making more informational and like fetish friendly but like still within the guidelines.

Ruin Willow: Yeah. Right. Was there anything that we haven't talked about that you had wanted to mention before we end?

Danny Sinclair: Oh my gosh. my brain doesn't work when I get asked questions.

Ruin Willow: Well, well, people can find your link. I'll put your link in the podcast show notes too so people can get to your link tree.

Danny Sinclair: Yesah. Perfect. That, Yep, just do that. That'd be great.

Ruin Willow: This was really fun getting to know you. Thank you so much for coming on. I enjoyed our chat.

Danny Sinclair: Thank you so much. This was great.

Ruin Willow: It was fun. Well, good luck in what you're doing and I hope you continue to grow. It sounds like you're on a good path for where you want to be.

Danny Sinclair: Thank you so much.

Ruin Willow: You have a good day.

Danny Sinclair: You too. Bye.